Lost four close friends on their Vision's in head-on crash
Spock
Posted 2011-07-05 1:06 PM (#90237)
Subject: Lost four close friends on their Vision's in head-on crash


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Carrollton, TX
It is with great sadness that I report that two of my closest friends Bruce Bricker and Steve Claterbaugh and Bruce’s wife Shannon and Steve’s girlfriend Kathy Smith were killed about 2:45 PM CDT on Sunday 7-3-11 north of Canton, TX on Hwy 19 on their Victory Vision’s. A guy in a Mustang pulled in front of them and hit them head on. He is in jail on a $2 million bail and has been charged with four counts of criminally negligent homicide.

Bruce and Steve and I rode together almost weekly. We all rode together Saturday the day before the accident and had just planned four day weekend trip to Eureka Springs, AR later this month and a weeklong trip in September to the NE area.

One of Bruce’s first trips was with me to Helen, GA for the 2008 SE Victory Rally. We logged about 35,000 miles together over the last three years. Steve also road with us on a lot of those miles and I did a few trips with just Steve. There was nothing they enjoyed more than riding their bikes. Bruce had just moved up to a new 2011 Vision from his 2008 and couldn’t get enough time in the saddle with it.

I am so thankful for their friendship and all the great riding we have done together over the last three years. Every time we hit the road we got to see a part of heaven. I am blessed for the time we had together and sadder than words can express that you’re both gone. I will always miss you both. When you see me riding just swoop down and soar along side of me.

Here are some links to the news stories on their accident.

http://www.wfaa.com/news/local/Familes-Remember-Four-Killed-In-Van-Zandt-County-Crash-124982534.html

http://www.kltv.com/story/15020450/collision-between-car-and-motorcycles-kills-4

http://tylerpaper.com/article/20110704/NEWS01/110709890

You can tell by the photos that this bridge in addition to the two lanes had a full emergence lane on both sides of the two lanes and Bruce and Steve moved clear to the far right along the cement wall of the bridge and the driver in the Mustang came all the way to his left past Bruce’s and Steve’s lane and hit them head on in their emergence lane. There was nothing more they could have done to avoid this irresponsible driver. Drive careful and I hope to see you all on the road somewhere.

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Amibrau
Posted 2011-07-05 1:24 PM (#90238 - in reply to #90237)
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The Great Northwet
So sorry for your loss Craig...and the loss for the families. Thoughts and prayers from the northwest for you and the familes.
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CorvettePoor
Posted 2011-07-05 1:54 PM (#90242 - in reply to #90237)
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Posts: 48
East Tennessee
My condolences for the loss of your friends.. No matter how careful we are out there, there's always a few morons that aren't paying attention.
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Fastfred
Posted 2011-07-05 2:44 PM (#90243 - in reply to #90237)
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mansfield, MA United States
WOW I just don't have any words for this. It is beyond sad. My heart goes out to you and there family's.
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Cap'n Nemo
Posted 2011-07-05 2:49 PM (#90244 - in reply to #90237)
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New Bohemia, Va
Craig - thanks for sharing more on this, I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your dear friends. There will be many never answerable questions in this tragedy. I have a my prayer that this will get enough national attention so that people will begin to pay attention when they drive.

I hope to ride with you one day friend.
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Breaker
Posted 2011-07-05 3:21 PM (#90248 - in reply to #90237)
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Iron Butt

Posts: 732
Western WA
Craig,

I'm deeply sorry for your loss as well as your friends' families.

Words fail in light of such a senseless tragedy.
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Dain
Posted 2011-07-05 3:24 PM (#90249 - in reply to #90237)
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I am sadden and enraged by this. The guy was probly texting. He needs to be put away for a long time and stripped of all driving priv's for the rest of his life. The poor family's and kid's of the couples must be completely crushed. My heart goes out to them and if there is anything I can do to help from here let me know. My bikes pre-owner wrecked, his then mine now, bike at 70mph and hit a guard rail to boot and is still around to talk about it. I feel that this bike is a survivor and is lucky for me. Dain
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adirondacks
Posted 2011-07-05 3:43 PM (#90250 - in reply to #90237)
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Troy, NY
Sorry to hear about the losses - it's a shame. My thoughts go out to families and friends this effects.

We should all live each day as if it is our last. Tell your friends and family how much you care for them. We never know when our time is coming.

Edited by adirondacks 2011-07-05 3:45 PM
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Easttexasrider
Posted 2011-07-05 4:15 PM (#90251 - in reply to #90237)
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Lindale, TX
I only live 30 minutes from the accident site. My prayers go out for all the victims of this terrible tragedy. When we heard the news my wife said she didn't want me to ride my Vision for a few days as she was scared of Fourth of July Weekend drunks on the road. That night I just had to ride so I rode about 30 minutes in the country thinking of those poor couples the whole time. It's very sobering when you realize how dangerous our hobby can be.
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SongFan
Posted 2011-07-05 5:25 PM (#90259 - in reply to #90237)
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Memphis
Nightmare for all involved.  Peace to the families and friends.
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glighto11
Posted 2011-07-05 5:47 PM (#90260 - in reply to #90237)
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Iron Butt

Posts: 741
Central New York

This is just so sad. There are never the right words, there is just always so many questions.

Please keep us informed on the other driver.

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DannyB
Posted 2011-07-05 5:55 PM (#90262 - in reply to #90237)
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2 mi from Jim Beam n KY
Thoughts and prayers for all involved in this tragic, senseless incident.
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dshelleny
Posted 2011-07-05 8:10 PM (#90269 - in reply to #90237)
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Please accept my sincere condolences, Craig. What a terrible, terrible incident.

Dave
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MaddMAx2u
Posted 2011-07-05 8:27 PM (#90273 - in reply to #90237)
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Iron Butt

Posts: 880
Orlando, FL
My condolences for your loss.
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Kioti
Posted 2011-07-05 9:11 PM (#90277 - in reply to #90237)
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Lennox, SD
My condolences. . . .I am so very sorry for your loss
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sister
Posted 2011-07-05 10:15 PM (#90280 - in reply to #90277)
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I posted this message earlier and it disappeared. I am Bruce's sister and I want to thank all of you for your words of support and caring. It keeps Bruce alive in our memories and our hearts.
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radioteacher
Posted 2011-07-05 10:22 PM (#90283 - in reply to #90237)
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Visionary

Posts: 3006
San Antonio, TX
Craig,

Thank you for the post. What a tragedy. I read this post just before I left work...and it took my breath away. I read the accounts and watched the coverage online.

I had a lot to think about as I prepared to mount up for the ride to the house.

My wife used to own a store that sold "Country" and hand crafted merchandise. So, two or three times a year we would drive to Canton for First Monday sales. She would meet her vendors and look for the special deals on the prairie. We would go up on Wednesday night to the hotel and get up before the sun to find the best deals. If I got lucky I would find a few things for myself.

We would stay West of Athens and drive to Canton every morning. Sunday afternoon we would head home. Monday I would go to work to rest. I remember what that road looked like before the rebuild a few years back. After all that work widening and providing hard shoulders I felt safer on my pre-dawn drive.

Never could I imagine that this could happen....not in daylight....not ever.

I can only pray for the friends and families involved. At least the police got the charges right.

I hope the prosecutors, police and judges have their facts in order so that the Jury can make the best decision on behalf of justice. I will even pray for the defense attorney so he can appeal the verdict and lose because the case against the man is solid and he had the best representation for his defense.

God bless all the riders tonight...


Edited by radioteacher 2011-07-05 10:22 PM
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8-ball
Posted 2011-07-05 10:37 PM (#90288 - in reply to #90237)
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8-ball
Posted 2011-07-05 10:16 PM (#90281 - in reply to #90182)
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Location: Neillsville, WI. Home of the "High Grounds" Not normally at a loss for words as everyone knows... my humble thought's and prayers go out to all the family and friends. Everything in this life happens for a reason and some things we do not know at this time. May our lost Brothers and Sisters continue to ride upon life's trail up above once again, with all the Brothers and Sisters that have gone home before us.

Ride hard, ride fast, but above all ride safe and free....

8-ball/Wildman

PS: The tough part about being a "biker" is not being tough, its about being full of human compassion and support for our fallen Brothers and Sisters ....
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Mr Sug
Posted 2011-07-05 11:01 PM (#90292 - in reply to #90237)
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Kansas City, MO
God bless them all
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HLUSN8
Posted 2011-07-05 11:28 PM (#90294 - in reply to #90237)
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Quad Cities, IL
Prayers have been sent up for all involved, especially the families suffering from such a tragic loss. May God provide comfort through this most difficult time to all those impacted by it. God Bless to all...ride safe. -Kevin
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Necktie
Posted 2011-07-06 12:04 AM (#90295 - in reply to #90237)
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Prescott, Az
Horrible..just horrible. So sorry for your loss, Craig.
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Eric_MA
Posted 2011-07-06 2:41 AM (#90297 - in reply to #90237)
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Posts: 109
Sturbridge, Ma
Thoughts and prayers to all family, friends and to the ones that personally new them from here! God bless! I feel grateful for life, just after my accident this past Easter...
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CowboyVision
Posted 2011-07-06 3:55 AM (#90298 - in reply to #90237)
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Meadow, Texas
My prayers and thoughts go out to all family. Our "family" lost friends this past weekend so keep their memories alive as we ride.
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Travelin Man
Posted 2011-07-06 6:31 AM (#90301 - in reply to #90237)
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Craig, my condolences on the loss of your friends and riding partners, may the memories of good times spent together help their families and you in this time of grief. God Bless!
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kris1956
Posted 2011-07-06 6:50 AM (#90302 - in reply to #90237)
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Iron Butt

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My heart goes out to you and to your lost friends. Things like this are so senseless and could so be prevented.
I live within 75 miles of this and have been to those flea markets. People simply don't pay attention for whatever reason. They're busy talking about what they bought or sold or whatever. I've had several people wander into my lane a few times,scared the hell out of me.
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radioteacher
Posted 2011-07-06 8:55 AM (#90303 - in reply to #90237)
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Visionary

Posts: 3006
San Antonio, TX
When are the services?
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Spock
Posted 2011-07-06 10:29 AM (#90309 - in reply to #90303)
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Tourer

Posts: 495
Carrollton, TX

Thank you all from the families and me for the kind thoughts and prayers! I have and will continue to share these with the families.

As you know many people just cannot relate to our passion for riding. Many look at it as an unnecessary risky activity. To most of us riding is a spiritual experience, one that brings us close to Nature and God. We see and experience what so many never do. We meet people that we would otherwise never meet and learn of greatness within them that we otherwise may never have discovered.

I have been in sales all my life whether it in my own businesses or working for a company and hence I meet a lot of people and have a huge network but I have meet the best people and developed the best friendships through riding. They are the ones that are accountable, predictable and dependable. They have backbone and are always there when you need them. You don’t need to ask because they are always vigilante and have a sense of when and where to be to help. Bruce and Steve were both like this!

Bruce and I had planned to ride to Helen, GA again this year to see many of you at the SE Victory Rally but he needed the time to spend with his sister and I had an opportunity to do a long trip with some other friends.

I have learned these things; as long as man walks this earth nothing will trump our relationships with others and man will never make anything that will compete with what God has created in nature. Cherish and cultivate your relationships and get out there on your bike and experience more of the awe-inspiring nature this country has to offer. I hope I have an opportunity to meet and ride with many more of you. Ride safe and may you ride many more years before God calls you home.

Here are the Visitation and Funeral arrangements for Bruce Bricker.


The Visitation will be this Thursday from 7 to 9 PM at:
The Dalton & Son Funeral Home
1550 N Stemmons Fwy
Lewisville, TX 75077
(972) 436-6511

The Funeral will be this Friday at 2:00 PM at:
First Baptist Church of Lewisville
1251 W. Valley Ridge Blvd.
Lewisville, TX 75077
(972) 436-5502


Steve Claterbaugh’s family is still working on his arrangements but to Steve’s wishes they will be much less formal and probably a week from this Friday or Saturday. I will let you all know.



Edited by Spock 2011-07-06 10:35 AM
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Webhair
Posted 2011-07-06 12:27 PM (#90318 - in reply to #90237)
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Iron Butt

Posts: 669
Peachtree City, GA
Sorry to hear this. Thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends.
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rmclarty
Posted 2011-07-06 12:28 PM (#90319 - in reply to #90237)
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Posts: 261
Sugar Land, TX (Outside of Houston)
Such a sad story and even worse seeing one of the "V" Tail sections the same color as mine. I don't know the full extent of the driver (Alcohol or not) but with a $2 million bail, there is something going on.

Prayers going out for the families and friends.

Richard
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wibiker
Posted 2011-07-06 1:22 PM (#90328 - in reply to #90237)
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not far from hustler wisconsin
my condolences. too bad. prayers for them sent from here.
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genuin
Posted 2011-07-06 1:45 PM (#90332 - in reply to #90309)
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Will Shannon's funeral be the same time as Bruce's?
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bgdd
Posted 2011-07-06 3:30 PM (#90335 - in reply to #90237)
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My condolences go out to the family of the 2 ladies and the 2 gentleman that lost their lives. Please keep us posted if there's going to be a memorial fund for the my brothers and sisters that lost their lives.
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bgdd
Posted 2011-07-06 3:30 PM (#90336 - in reply to #90237)
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My condolences go out to the family of the 2 ladies and the 2 gentleman that lost their lives. Please keep us posted if there's going to be a memorial fund for the my brothers and sisters that lost their lives.
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Spock
Posted 2011-07-06 4:29 PM (#90342 - in reply to #90332)
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Posts: 495
Carrollton, TX

genuin - 2011-07-06 1:45 PM Will Shannon's funeral be the same time as Bruce's?

Yes, Shannon and Bruce's services will be combined.

Thanks,

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taz456
Posted 2011-07-06 8:03 PM (#90358 - in reply to #90237)
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Pittsburgh, PA
please give our love to the family and friends. our prays go out to them
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bob5219
Posted 2011-07-06 8:46 PM (#90361 - in reply to #90237)
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I am so sorry for your loss, they were riding one of the safest Bikes on the road today but it doesn't matter if the guy behind the wheel cares not if his actions take you out or not. I just hope the jerk behind the wheel is haunted by this the rest of his life and never gets another full night sleep because he sees their faces every time he closes his eyes. They will be riding the roads of heaven on bikes that never need repairs or gas with smiles on there faces because every day is a great day to ride. Ride free Bruce, Steve, Shannon, and Kathy, you will be missed by your Brothers and Sisters of the Road.

Dragon Bob
2008 Vision
2001 Ron Simms Warloard
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Greatvision
Posted 2011-07-06 9:31 PM (#90364 - in reply to #90237)
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So very sorry to hear this. May God be with the family and friends.
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kenhiggins
Posted 2011-07-07 8:48 AM (#90377 - in reply to #90237)
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Montreal, QC Canada
Craig,

Our thoughts go out to you as well... Take care, ride safe.
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Spock
Posted 2011-07-08 10:42 PM (#90487 - in reply to #90377)
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Posts: 495
Carrollton, TX

Thank you all for all your kind thoughts and prayers. It not only means a lot to me and the families but to every member of this forum seeing the level of caring and support they can expect from us all.

I was a pallbearer for Bruce and Shannon at their funeral today. A huge crowd of family and friends attended and the services were great. Support came from everywhere. Rick Fairless and about 10 of his employees from Strokers Dallas where we all bought our Victory Visions were there as well as Mike McMillan the District Sales Manager for Victory. To me that defines a whole new level of customer support… one that is priceless.

We are still working on finalizing a “Celebration of Life” event for both Steve and Bruce with a memorial ride to follow. We are tentatively looking at holding this on the morning of Saturday the 23rd at Strokers Dallas and then do the memorial ride. I will let you know once we have it all confirmed.

I also wanted to share with you all two of my favorite quotes related to living our life.

The best use of your life
is to so live your life
that the use of your life
outlives your life.

Strive to be the man that every young boy hopes to be and every old man wishes he was.

Warmest regards,



Edited by Spock 2011-07-08 10:45 PM
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Mikeebiker
Posted 2011-07-12 9:46 AM (#90704 - in reply to #90237)
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Posts: 101
Springfield, TN
Craig... It has taken me too long to express my feelings. You have done a wonderful job expressing yours. My wife and I will continue to remember these families and friends left behind in our prayers. Kudos to Strokers for being there for their "family"!
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Spock
Posted 2011-07-20 10:17 AM (#91230 - in reply to #90704)
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Posts: 495
Carrollton, TX

Please join us in Celebrating the Life and remembering four very special people!


Steve Claterbaugh
December 14, 1957 - July 3, 2011
Rowlett, Texas

Bruce Bricker
September 4, 1959 - July 3, 2011
Highland Village, Texas

Kathy Smith
April 2, 1959 - July 3, 2011
Wylie, Texas

Shannon Bricker
October 4, 1970 - July 3, 2011
Highland Village, Texas

Memorial Ride
When: Saturday, July 23, 2011
Meet at 8:00 AM, 8:30 AM KSU (Kickstands Up)
Where: Strokers Dallas; 9304 Harry Hines, Dallas, TX 75235
To: The accident site, favorite ice cream, back to Strokers

Please rsvp by replying at http://memorialride.eventbrite.com


Celebration of Life Event
When: Saturday, July 23, 2011
Where: Strokers Dallas – Event area in back
Meet at 12:00 PM Noon till 2:00 PM

Please rsvp by replying at
http://steveandbruce.eventbrite.com


On Sunday, July 3 a tragic accident took away these four very special people who touched so many lives.   If you would like to share a story or memory of Steve, Bruce, Shannon or Kathy please send or bring to the Celebration.

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Cap'n Nemo
Posted 2011-07-20 10:51 AM (#91236 - in reply to #91230)
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New Bohemia, Va
Spock, thank you for this invite, wish I could be there. I will take a ride in memory of these fine people and take a moment to say a prayer for the family on Saturday. EST kickstand up at 9:30am.

Edited by Cap'n Nemo 2011-07-20 10:58 AM
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Trekwolf164
Posted 2011-07-20 2:21 PM (#91242 - in reply to #90237)
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Iron Butt

Posts: 965
New York State
Sorry for your loss.

I'm taking a ride Sat in Boiceville NY to support the Boy Scouts of America your friends will be in my thoughts.

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lennyb
Posted 2011-07-20 5:11 PM (#91254 - in reply to #90237)
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Iron Butt

Posts: 804
Perry Hall, MD
Craig,

Certainly would be an honor to be able to attend, I'll offer a prayer and be riding in Maryland in their memory.
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radioteacher
Posted 2011-07-20 6:49 PM (#91262 - in reply to #90237)
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Visionary

Posts: 3006
San Antonio, TX
I cannot make it to Dallas but I would like to have a ride in South Texas for these fine souls.

Please join me on a Memorial Ride.

Steve Claterbaugh
December 14, 1957 - July 3, 2011
Rowlett, Texas

Kathy Smith
April 2, 1959 - July 3, 2011
Wylie, Texas

Bruce Bricker
September 4, 1959 - July 3, 2011
Highland Village, Texas

Shannon Bricker
October 4, 1970 - July 3, 2011
Highland Village, Texas

When: Saturday, July 23, 2011
Meet at 8:30 AM, 9:00 AM KSU (Kickstands Up)

Where: Bandera, TX near the Old Spanish Trail

To: Ride to Camp Wood and back to the Motorcycle Museum for lunch.


Edited by radioteacher 2011-07-20 6:50 PM
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Smitty
Posted 2011-07-21 9:18 PM (#91323 - in reply to #90237)
Subject: I'm so sorry for your loss. It's always much tougher when


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we know the one's who are killed by such a reckless act. God's peace to you and their families.
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Smitty
Posted 2011-07-21 9:21 PM (#91324 - in reply to #90487)
Subject: Spock, here's a piece by H. Scott Holland that may help you


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It brought me great solice when my wife died, and then when my mom passed this past December 11 months later.

"Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away into the next room. I am I, and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, that we still are. Call me by my old familiar name; speak to me in the easy way, which you always used. Put no difference in your tone; wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Pray, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was, let it be spoken without effect without the trace of a shadow on it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was; there is unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just round the corner. All is well."

Henry Scott Holland
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vwfarm
Posted 2011-07-21 10:08 PM (#91326 - in reply to #90237)
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Posts: 51
Ennis, Tx
Craig, my condolences on the loss of your friends and riding partners... Prayers heading your way for the healing & understanding for your loses and for all families...
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Spock
Posted 2011-07-22 9:53 AM (#91356 - in reply to #91324)
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Carrollton, TX

Smitty - 2011-07-21 9:21 PM It brought me great solice when my wife died, and then when my mom passed this past December 11 months later. "Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away into the next room. I am I, and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, that we still are. Call me by my old familiar name; speak to me in the easy way, which you always used. Put no difference in your tone; wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Pray, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was, let it be spoken without effect without the trace of a shadow on it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was; there is unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just round the corner. All is well." Henry Scott Holland

Smitty, thanks for sharing this, it is great and expresses my beliefs.

Thank you all for your kind words, thoughts and prayers! The families thank you also.

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jgn281
Posted 2012-09-14 8:57 AM (#123589 - in reply to #90237)
Subject: Re: Lost four close friends on their Vision's in head-on crash


Cruiser

Posts: 73
Sullivan, IN United States
Would anyone know what the outcome was for the driver of the Mustang? Last I head he jailed on $2M bond.
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Double Vision
Posted 2012-09-14 10:09 AM (#123591 - in reply to #90237)
Subject: Re: Lost four close friends on their Vision's in head-on crash


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I apologize for not responding sooner, I must have missed this original post.
This is a shocking and tragic loss. My condolences go out to the family and friends of the riders.
Ride safe folks.
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DannyB
Posted 2012-09-14 7:22 PM (#123628 - in reply to #90237)
Subject: Re: Lost four close friends on their Vision's in head-on crash


Tourer

Posts: 554
2 mi from Jim Beam n KY
Prayers to the family and friends. Beyond that I'm speechless.
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Trekwolf164
Posted 2012-09-14 10:45 PM (#123631 - in reply to #90237)
Subject: Re: Lost four close friends on their Vision's in head-on crash


Iron Butt

Posts: 965
New York State
Tried to find out the result of the Felony charges but could not find out if Jose Pena was convicted.

Does anyone know the results of the trial ?
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kris1956
Posted 2012-09-15 5:15 AM (#123634 - in reply to #123631)
Subject: Re: Lost four close friends on their Vision's in head-on crash


Iron Butt

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It was on the Van Zandt county docket as of 8-21-12. He's still in jail.
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joeC
Posted 2012-09-15 2:15 PM (#123644 - in reply to #90237)
Subject: Re: Lost four close friends on their Vision's in head-on crash


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Posts: 132
New York
I am also sorry for not responding sooner.. I didn't see when it was first posted.. Prayers and thoughts go out to all family and Friends...
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Spock
Posted 2012-09-15 10:50 PM (#123665 - in reply to #123634)
Subject: Re: Lost four close friends on their Vision's in head-on crash


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Posts: 495
Carrollton, TX
This case like most is treading slowly through the court system. ugh... They had a pretrial hearing on 8-21-12. Pena got his angle monitor removed and some more delays in the court proceedings. Once I have the next court date I will let you know. Our court system is very frustrating to say the least. 
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glencath1
Posted 2012-09-19 6:59 PM (#123942 - in reply to #90237)
Subject: RE: Lost four close friends on their Vision's in head-on crash


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Illinois
I'm very sorry.
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Trekwolf164
Posted 2012-09-20 7:22 PM (#124001 - in reply to #123665)
Subject: Re: Lost four close friends on their Vision's in head-on crash


Iron Butt

Posts: 965
New York State
Spock - 2012-09-15 11:50 PM

This case like most is treading slowly?through?the court system. ugh... They had a pretrial hearing on 8-21-12. Pena got his angle monitor removed and some more delays in the court?proceedings. Once I have the next court date I will let you know. Our court system is very frustrating to say the least.?


Thank you for the update

I hope this guy is convicted
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jgn281
Posted 2012-09-21 8:48 AM (#124029 - in reply to #90237)
Subject: Re: Lost four close friends on their Vision's in head-on crash


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Sullivan, IN United States
Thanks for the update. The court system definitely needs overhauled but it does work. Maybe with some help from a good prosecuting attorney this guy will be off the road for a while.
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